If you have read more than one of my articles, I'm sure you may
have come away with the notion that I am big on goal setting.
You would be correct in this assumption. I have done a number
of presentations on this subject. During these presentations I
have noticed that there are two overriding views on goal
setting. The first, is of those that are either new to goal
setting, or yet haven't tried it. I have their full attention
in the presentation when I get to setting and achieving your
goals. The second overriding view is of those that tell
themselves "Goal setting hah! I've tried that and it didn't
work for me." In discussions with these folks I have found that
the majority of them agree on the positive impacts that goal
setting has. Most of them have even gone so far as list out
their major goals, however that is where they stopped.
To be a goal setter, and more importantly a goal achiever, you
not only have to have a written set of goals for you life
(business and/or personal), but, you also have to have a
written plan of action towards their achievement. In a recent
Success Atlas article I noted that I have an article on goal
setting. The many requests I received for that article has
prompted this more in-depth look at goal setting and
achievement. In other words, you asked for it you got it, Goal
setting 101.
The goal setting process really starts with a self-evaluation
of sorts. Sitting down and asking questions like, "What do I
really want out of life?" "What do I want to accomplish,
become, have be or do?" Open your mind and your heart. Sit
down and fill out a desire journal. Fill it with all the
dreams, aspirations and desires that lie in the recesses of who
you are and who you want to become. Don't hold back, write
everything down! Dream like a child the evening before his/her
birthday or the evening before Christmas. Dream like anything
and everything is possible. Because unless it is legal,
immoral, or unethical, I would highly encourage you to believe
that it is possible.
Decide what it is you want in each area of your life: Personal,
Family, Professional, Financial, Physical and Mental. Don't be
vague either, if what you want is money (financial) then define
how much you want and by when. Specifics are necessary for you
to have a plan. Being clear in what it is you want will cause
about 80% of your success. You can not plan for the goal "I
want more money." You can, however, plan for the goal "I want
to earn $250,000.00 annually by the end of 2003. The more
specific your goals are the easier they are to build a plan
for. If as your reading this you are thinking "I do not know
what I want to be, do or have." Then set a goal to find out.
Write down your goals. Don't type them (not at first anyway)
sit down and print them out, clearly, specifically and in
measurable terms. This moves them from a desire, wish or
intangible dream to an item on paper. Something you can see,
touch, and relate to.
Okay now you know what you want - next you will need to
identify what skills and knowledge you will require in order to
accomplish your goal. Ask yourself what knowledge you need to
gain in order to speed-up the successful accomplishment of you
goal. Ask yourself what skill(s) you need to make the greatest
positive impact on getting to your goal. There is always at
least one skill or key piece of knowledge that is holding you
back - otherwise you would already have accomplished the goal.
Identify what it is and go out there and get it! If you are
not able to figure it out for yourself then ask your spouse,
your friends, your boss, a mentor, or any other person that you
believe would know.
There are some things that you can do alone, however to achieve
significant goals in your life you will need help. List all the
people, groups and organizations that you will need to interact
with to reach your goal. Write them all down then prioritize
them. As you are going through this process consider the ways
you can be of assistance to them. Everyone's favorite radio
station is WIIFM - What's in it for me? So knowing in advance
what you can do to assist them will payoff in faster results on
getting their assistance in your goal achievement. Think
through some win-win negotiations. Remember the more you give
the more you get. As Zig Ziglar reminds us "You can have
everything you want if you just help enough others get what
they want." As well as those that can help you, I would also
suggest listing out those that could hinder your progress as
well. Forewarned is forearmed.
Obstacles - we have all encountered them, and we will continue
to encounter them during our attempt to reach any goal of
worth. If there were no obstacles along the way everyone would
have already accomplished all of their goals - you included.
List all the obstacles, barriers and impediments to your goal.
Why are you not at your goal already? Write down each and
every answer to that question. This will allow you to find the
bottleneck to your success. Once you are aware of what is
holding you back, apply all your resources (which you listed
out already) towards the removing or overcoming of this
blockage. More often than not, the removal of a single primary
blockage will uproot and resolve many other smaller barriers to
your goal. This can help you make quantum leaps towards
reaching that goal.
Now that you have this valuable collection of information you
need to map out a plan to utilize it and accomplish your goal.
Successful business men do not set out on a course of action
without a plan, you wouldn't go on vacation without some
planning and most do not even get married with out hours and
hours (one hundred or more at times) of planning. These days
far too many spend one hundred hours, or more, planning the
wedding. Yet, they spend no time at all planning their
marriage or their life. You can change that in your life. Lay
out the key points you have put together thus far and develop a
plan of attack. This plan can start with the steps to gain the
knowledge and skills you need to gain. Steps to get you in
contact with the people and organizations you need to help you
along your road to success. Lay out all the steps you know you
need to take to reach your goal. Organize then by priority,
then sequence them. As you go through this process you will
be motivated to take actions against the first step on your
plan. Completing the first step will further motivate you to
take action on the next step and so on.
Now that you have a plan you need to set a deadline. A goal is
a dream with an achieve-by date. Setting a deadline develops
and intensifies your desire to attain your goals. Don't scare
yourself with large goals or underestimate how long it will
take to accomplish them. Instead break down large goals into
small milestones with deadlines. These milestones will act
like a forcing system for you unconscious mind. They will
motivate and drive you towards your goal. Having deadlines for
your goals will keep them on your mind. Making you more
conscious to the situations and people in your life that can
aid you on your road to success. Set your deadlines as
realistically as possible. Do not over or under estimate them
be honest with yourself. You could always reset deadlines.
The key point I want to drive home here is that you MUST have a
deadline to shoot for.
You have the plan - now what? As I mentioned early in this
article most people agree on the positive impacts that goal
setting have. Most of them have even gone so far as listing
out their major goals, however that is where they stopped.
Here is where you are going to act differently and succeed in
your goal achievement. The key word here is ACT. Take action
on your plan! Do not procrastinate! The clock is ticking and
your deadline is inching closer with each passing second. Do
something each and everyday towards the accomplishment of your
goals. Work with all your gusto on the first step of your plan
until it is either completed or until you can make no further
progress on it. Then move to the next step, coming back to
those incomplete previous steps as soon as you can move them
forward to their completion. Keep moving, keep working and
keep taking your action steps every day, do not stop. Anyone
that has ever had to push a car will tell you the hardest part
is getting it moving. Once your moving it will still take
effort, but it takes far less effort than if you stop pushing
and have to start moving all over again. Taking consistent
daily action will not only move you quickly towards your goal
but it will reinforce in your subconscious mind that you can
and will attain your goal. Giving you a positive attitude
towards it.
Two additional things you can do you that will steel your
resolve to accomplish your goals are to visualize your goal and
resolve to never give up. Visualize your goal continually or
as often as possible during every waking moment. Your
subconscious mind does not differentiate between your
visualization and reality. So visualize your goal as already
attained. View it in you mind's eye with every detail
possible. Feel the pride, joy and fulfillment that will come
with reaching a significant goal. Visualization will also make
you aware of those situations and resources in your life that
you will need to reach your goal. Finally resolve to never
give up in your quest to reach your goal. Attack it with a
dogged determination. Let the words of the Capcom commander in
Apollo 13 ring in your ears; "Failure is not an option!" When
you encounter barriers and obstacles do not ask yourself what
will happen if or when I fail. Instead think positive, then
develop a plan action. Ask yourself "How can I get over,
around or though this barrier and reach my goal!"
Everyone has goals, I have them you have them even a child has
goals. These goals can be keeping your job, getting a
promotion, and the child has a goal of passing a test, getting
that much desired toy they saw on television or showing mommy
and daddy how much they are loved. The difference between
these goals and the goals of the top achievers is focus. Peak
achievers go through processes similar to the one I have laid
out here to focus their actions on what they want to be, have
or do. They design their goals with a mission and this mission
is success. Follow this process and you too can rise to the
levels of those you have watched in awe.
Think successfully!
Tracy Brinkmann
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